A Heart-to-Heart: You're Doing Better Than You Think

You're doing a great job, and you should be proud of how far you've come. Now keep going. Keep moving forward. Keep learning. Keep evolving. Keep growing. Keep your head up.

Look, I get it. Some days, you’re drowning in emails, juggling deadlines, and wondering if you’re cut out for this. Maybe you’re staring at a rejection letter or feeling stuck in a job that doesn’t quite fit. It’s tough, and it’s okay to admit that.

The Invisible Progress

Here’s the thing – you’re probably doing better than you realize. Remember when you first started? How overwhelmed you felt? Now, you’re handling tasks that would’ve made your past self break into a cold sweat. That’s growth, even if it doesn’t always feel like it.

The Comparison Trap

Stop scrolling through LinkedIn thinking everyone's got it figured out. I often remind my kids that what you see on social media is, as it frequently is, staged media. Remember, your context is unique based on your journey to this point, so do yourself a favor and embrace your context. Embrace the variables in your life that have brought you to this time and place, and stop comparing your story and journey to the short clips someone else is sharing about what they want you to know about their story.

The Job Hunt Struggle

For those of you pounding the pavement looking for work – I see you. It’s exhausting, demoralizing, and can make you question your worth. But here’s the truth: your value isn’t determined by your employment status. This phase is temporary, even though it feels endless.

The Small Victories

Let’s talk about wins – and I don’t mean promotions or awards. I’m talking about the day you spoke up in a meeting despite your anxiety. The time you figured out that Excel formula without asking for help. The moment you sent that application despite feeling underqualified. These are the real victories.

The Power of Yet

You might not be where you want to be, but add “yet” to that sentence. You’re not a manager – yet. You haven’t landed your dream job – yet. You’re not an expert in your field – yet. Keep that “yet” in mind. It’s a reminder that you’re on a journey, not at a dead end.

The Reality Check

Some days, just showing up is a win. In a world that’s always pushing for more, it’s okay to acknowledge that sometimes, your best looks different. Maybe today, your best was getting out of bed and logging on. That counts.

So, what’s next?

Keep going. Not because some motivational poster told you to, but because you’ve already proven you can. You’ve survived every bad day so far – that’s a pretty good track record.

Here’s the bottom line: You’re doing a good job. Not perfect, because perfect doesn’t exist. But good – really good. In ways you might not even recognize. So take a breath, give yourself a break, and keep pushing forward. You’ve got this, even on the days when it feels like you don’t.

Remember, every expert was once a beginner. Every success story includes chapters of struggle. You’re writing your story right now, and it’s shaping up to be a pretty impressive one. Keep at it – the best parts are still unwritten.

The Power of Yet: Daily Mantra

Start your day by standing in front of a mirror and confidently reciting this mantra:

I am not where I want to be – yet.
I haven’t achieved all my goals – yet.
I’m not the best version of myself – yet.

But I am growing,
I am learning,
I am improving every day.

My potential is limitless,
My journey is ongoing,
My success is inevitable.

I embrace the power of ‘yet,’
For it reminds me that my story is still unfolding.
I am a work in progress,
And my best is yet to come.

Today, I choose growth over fear,
Progress over perfection,
And possibility over doubt.

I am capable,
I am resilient,
I am unstoppable.

My future is bright,
My path is clear,
And my time is now – and yet to come.

As you recite this mantra, remember to breathe deeply and stand tall. Let each word resonate within you, fueling your determination and reminding you of your inherent potential. This isn’t just about positive thinking – it’s about acknowledging your current state while firmly believing in your capacity for growth and achievement.

Start your day with this mantra, and carry its essence with you. When faced with challenges or self-doubt, return to these words. They serve as a powerful reminder that your journey is ongoing, your growth is constant, and your best self is always evolving.

Embrace the power of ‘yet’ – it’s not just a word, it’s a mindset that can transform your approach to every aspect of your professional and personal life.

Keep Growing.